At the end of the night, I just wanted to get home and shower. So I left in full Dracula make-up. When I got home, I had an idea. I slipped silently into bed and tapped my sleeping spouse on the shoulder. He opened his eyes, and moving faster than the speed of light leaped out of the bed. It was truly comical. He was not amused. He actually peed himself a little.
There are a few levers you can pull to help your response rate, although whether it’s feasible for you is going to come down to the kind of research you’re trying to do and how much money/ resources you have. This was more of brunch, but embarrassing ain’t the word! So my ex and I were out for brunch one day. He’d left work to pick me up and didn’t have much time. We just ran to the restaurant up the street and sat down to eat. This was at the point in time the relationship was starting to get a little more serious, and I was starting to see the real *Wayne.