This past weekend, my boyfriend came over and I had told him prior to him coming that I didn’t want to have sex (we usually have sex on Saturdays) because the night before, he had asked to have sex and I said no so he tried to manipulate me into it by getting me high. But then, it was a little traumatic bc I thought he was gonna rape me the entire time. Anyways, he came over and everything was fine until I took a shower, and the almost moment I stepped out, he did a sexual thing. So at first, I was like “oh, maybe we can..” but then, not even 30 seconds later I was like “actually, no, I really don’t want to.” But then, he followed me (still naked with a towel) to my room and proceeded to have a temper tantrum (he even cried) because I wouldn’t have sex with him. Then, because he was being yucky, I went under a large blanket and told him to leave me alone. He then tried to force his way into my blanket cave and so I yelled at him to leave. It was old him he needed to just go wait out on the porch until I was done getting dressed.
Then he tried to open my window and crawl inside, but i yelled at him not to and threw the rest of his things outside and told him to just go. But he didn’t, and he kept knocking on both doors for another 10 ish minutes and so i went into my closent and called my friend for emotional support. He assumed i was calling the cops, so he called lur “fine! I’ll call the cops on YOU! what for, idk, but after that he was gone. Then, Later that night, he tried to play it off as no big deal. I told him i didnt wanna be in a relationship anymore and he said we could be frinds. I pretty much told him no on that bc everytime we’re just friends, we end up getting back together. It’s almost Wednesday (11:48 pm) and I havent heard from him since. In this 2½ years long relationship, he has lied to me about pretty much his entire backstory (told me he was a heroin addict aince 11 and that i was the reason he stopped, that he had been a drug dealer, people were trying to kill him, he acted like he was possesed for a while until he did some “dangerous blood magic that some guy saw him do once and he went insane”, he lied about being in an abusive relationship and getting stabbed and the guy apparently “killed himself”.