Then the 419 Nigerian scam got him and he lost his Father’s inheritance money of 300k he would’ve gotten. By that time he was drinking and doing drugs he shouldn’t do. After all of those set backs he never recovered and just kept drinking and drowning pills he shouldn’t have. To survive he got on social security disability and that’s all we had to live on.
It seems the time he really started changing was after we decided not to have any more babies. That’s when his mask fell off and no matter what we did it just all went down hill. He should’ve been a better example to our kids we had, but he was already a totally different man then I’d known beforehand. Our kids suffered immensely because of him. Today I’m still trying to fix all the wrongs with them he caused.